The stats that came out yesterday from the Australian Gender Equality Agency make for a sobering, if not unsurprising read. There is no doubt that progress has been made around gender equality in the workplace. For example there has been a small increase in key management personnel who are women (28.5%) and appointments of women to management role at 42.6%. However, that men earn nearly &27,000 a year more than women and 5 out of 6 CEO’s are men, indicate that there is a long way to go yet.
The reasons for this are multiple, complex, interrelated and too many to explore in one article. Reasons that relate both to societies view of and expectations of women and the expectations they have of themselves. They include entitlement, confidence and fear of change both personal and in relation to a broader society. One reason that both feeds into and impacts on all of the others is how women are portrayed as leaders in popular media.
Have a look at the pictures below. I found these pictures when I tried to use clipart to find some empowering pictures of women leading for a talk I was giving. I found the pictures by typing in clip art search, the following terms:
As you can see, far from the empowering images I was seeking, what I found was a number of stereotypes that tell a different story. Not very empowering are they?
Source clip art February 2016
This is an important visual story. Pictures paint a thousand words and similar images are in films, media and advertising. They are everywhere and we don’t consciously notice them. Unconsciously though, they reinforce the status quo and belittle women. They belittle our capabilities, impact our confidence and make us and our leadership at best invisible, at worst appear incompetent.
Add to this how women leaders are described. Below are a few of the words commonly used to describe male and female leaders who are exhibiting the same behaviors.
Women Leaders Male Leaders
Scary Cut Throat
Just like a man
Source: How to beat the female leadership stereotypes, The Guardian 9.12.13
These words are commonly heard and seen in relation to visible women leaders. They have the potential to significantly influence the way women perceive themselves as both women and as leaders. Notice how negative and one-dimensional they are. Also notice the differences between the visual and verbal stereotypes. From incompetent to despotic – which are we? The answer of course is neither and we do not have to believe these stereotypes. We do not have to try them on for size. They, like all stereotypes do not describe the complexity of reality.
Despite that, these pervasive labels have the potential to erode women’s individual and collective confidence. They keep women faithful to the safety of the ‘good girl’ image because the associated caricatures and archetypes are worse.
Our collective challenge as a society, despite the range of barriers related to these stereotypes, is for both men and women to recognize them and challenge them through conversation. In this small way, we can collectively support and encourage a different way forward so that women don’t stand alone when they choose to step up and contribute as both leaders and to the leadership conversation.
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